are you with the right partner??

For those who are in a relationship out there, I want you guys to ask yourself a question.. "are you with the right partner?". spare your answers..I want to share a story that I read earlier. I read it on Facebook when my friend shared it. 

During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥

Thanks to the writer for writing this good entry. 

Life is beautiful when we know how to paint it. Think!

we never are alone

93 million miles from the Sun, 

people get ready get ready,

'cause here it comes it’s a light, a beautiful light, over the horizon into our eyes
Oh my my how beautiful, 

oh my beautiful mother
She told me, 

"Son in life you’re gonna go far, and if you do it right you’ll love where you are
Just know, that wherever you go, you can always come home"

240 thousand miles from the Moon, 

we’ve come a long way to belong here,
To share this view of the night, a glorious night, over the horizon is another bright sky
Oh, my my how beautiful, 

oh my irrefutable father,
He told me, 

"Son sometimes it may seem dark, but the absence of the light is a necessary part.
Just know, you’re never alone, you can always come back home"

Every road is a slippery slope
There is always a hand that you can hold on to.
Looking deeper through the telescope
You can see that your home’s inside of you.

Just know, that wherever you go, no you’re never alone, you will always get back home..

p/s together we face the ups and downs of life..the world is always a cruel place to live in :)

kacang...the unexpected journey

                           

well, i'm back in hell called CAMPUS!
kalau mula2 dulu betul aku cakap campus life is cool,
tapi sekarang aku rasa tak sabar nak habis..
bukan nak merungut,
bukan nak kata tak bersyukur aku diberi peluang belajar,
tapi aku teringat something..
at some point in our life,
kita akan fikir untuk dapat lebih dari apa yang kita ada,
studying is a phase,
dah study sejak tadika, masuk sekolah rendah, sekola menengah, and now kat universiti,
sekarang aku rasa tak sabar nak berkerjaya,
ada kerja sendiri, hidup sendiri, ada duit sendiri, beli barang dengan duit hasil titik peluh sendiri.
honestly aku dah tak sanggup nak susahkan orang, especially family aku..
belajar jauh memerlukan belanja,
ya, aku ada pinjaman,
tapi tiap2 kali aku buat bajet sendiri,
bajet tu selalu lari.
last2 family jugak tempat mengadu..

sorry mom, sorry dad, sorry sis, sorry bro..
i want all this to end up more than u guys do..
when the time comes i will be the one who's gonna contribute to our family.
just hang in there,
Insyaallah nanti bila aku dah grad, dapat keja, aku akan tolong family plak,
sebagaimana family aku tolong aku selama ni.

now i'm in my final year of study,
dah masuk semester 5,
subjek2 pun makin susah,
tapi I will do my best..

to all my friends yang sama2 masuk semester 5 sekarang,
i wish u all good luck!
semoga sem ni kita sama2 boleh buat lagi bagus dari sebelum ni.

to that person,
semester ni dah semester last,
you're gonna graduate soon.
be patient okay..
things will turn up good,
just don't give up..
good luck for your final exams! :)

selamat memasuki semester baru semua!!! 

diari praktikal part 1

Pepagi ni aku tak pegi keja..

cuti katanya,

nak tido tak boleh sebab ada beruang tido kat bilik!

so technically sekarang aku tak buat apa2..selain online dan dengar Red.fm

i think better aku luang masa dengan blog je hari ni..

aku tak update lagi pasal praktikal kan..

kat bawah ni aku nak highlight tarikh2 yang aku rasa aku buat banyak benda best sepanjang aku praktikal kat Muzium & Balai Seni Lukis Negeri Pulau Pinang!

mana2 hari yang tak tersenarai tu maknanya aku duduk goyang kaki, online dan tido sepanjang hari...you know, same old same old..

23 januari 2013..

tarikh ni is one of the biggest date this year. hari ni aku start practical training. tak banyak benda special pun. just that i'm so eager to feel what does it feel to be working in the industry. 1st day banyak briefing je. tapi kitorg dah dapat task dan aku..kena jadi emcee untuk satu event kecik. nanti aku cite..

paling pahit masa 1st day ni aku tak dapat rumah lagi..so abis je keje aku duduk bawah jambatan sampai pagi esok..kahkahkah! no la, gurau je..aku duduk hotel utk 2 malam.

4 februari 2013..

well, hari ni yang specialnya adalah birthday aku..tapi takde staff wish pun..*sedeh

dalam pukul 2.30 ada meeting dengan semua staff..unluckily kitorang kena hambur denagn bos sebab lambat! LOL

spoil mood birthday boy je..

6 februari 2013..

tarikh ni ada satu event kat Galeri seni lukis kat dewan seri pinang. so petang tu aku drive sambil bawak  budak2 hitam..masa event ni la aku jadi emcee. semua okay je..thank god! aku punya la nervous. padahal event kecik je..hehe..event tu nak showcase paintings artis Thailand dgn Malaysia..ramai org siam hari tu.

12 februari 2013..

Hari ni public holiday! Chinese New Year. tapi kitorang kena keja..OMG! dah la aku sampai awal. staf lain masuk pukul 10, aku masuk 8.30. caner tuh! semua sebab salah info..damn!

13 - 15 februari 2013..

sepanjang minggu ni busy je memanjang. sebab ada event. so tiap2 hari balik pukul 7.30. then sampai rumah around 9! stuck dalam traffic memang suck! stres sangat. T.T

16 februari 2013..

hari event! Penang's Popular Music launching Ceremony. hari ni paling ramai aku nampak orang yang datang kat muzium ni. sebelum2 ni sunyi je..haha..nampak apa yang kitorg buat selama berminggu berbaloi jugak walaupun crowd kejap je ramai. nasib baik balik pukul 5..ngeh3

18 februari 2013..

hari ni bos bagi cuti..

19 februari 2013..

sepatutnya hari ni cuti jugak, tapi memandangkan lecturer nak datang buat inspection, so kitorg pun datang la keja. kat ofis tak ramai orang pun. sementara tunggu lecturer sampai tu kitorg duduk goyang kaki je..layan youtube la, makan la, chatting la, aku siap webcam dengan adik semata-mata nak tengok anak buah! hehe..lecturer sampai dalam pukul 3.30. supervisor yang handle. lepas abis borak dengan supervisor baru dia borak dengan kitorang..ok la. komen semua positif. good!

20 februari 2013..

hari ni cuti lagi..sebab semalam dah keja! haha

 

tu je la yang aku boleh tulis. tinggal lagi 7 hari je nak abis praktikal ni..kejap je kan! 6 weeks tu tolak sabtu ahad, tolak cuti tinggal brp hari je. elaun pun tinggal sikit..huhu

nantikan sambungan entri ni! tu pun kalau aku rajin..kbai!

don't you worry child

                                 

okay, masa untuk buang sawang2 yang makin banyak kat blog ni..
dah sangat lama aku tak buat entry,
macam sindrom pulak,
last year bulan february adalah bulan yang paling pasif bagi aku dengan blog,
seems like tahun ni pun sama..
walhal bulan februari kali ni agak special,
birthday aku, birthday ehem2, anniversary, aku praktikal, aku buat event, dan banyak lagi!
tu perkara positif..tak termasuk lagi benda negatif!
bulan februari jugak aku banyak stres, pegi kerja stres, balik rumah stres, result tak berapa nak okay..pfffttt!

Time2 macam ni hanya lagu je yang boleh teman,
song like this one..

There was a time, I used to look into my father's eyes
In a happy home, I was a king I had a gold throne
Those days are gone, now the memories are on the wall
I hear the sounds from the places where I was born

Up on the hill across the blue lake,
thats where I had my first heart break
I still remember how it all changed
my father said

Don't you worry, don't you worry child
See heaven's got a plan for you
Don't you worry, don't you worry now

Don't you worry, don't you worry now
See heaven's got a plan for you
Don't you worry, don't you worry now

There was a time, I met a girl of a different kind
We ruled the world,
Thought I'll never lose her out of sight
We were so young
I think of her now and then
Still hear the song reminding me of a friend

Up on the hill across the blue lake,
thats where I had my first heart break
I still remember how it all changed
my father said

Don't you worry, don't you worry child
See heaven's got a plan for you
Don't you worry, don't you worry now

See heaven's got a plan for you

Don't you worry, don't you worry child
See heaven's got a plan for you
Don't you worry, don't you worry now

i know takde kaitan sangat dengan masalah aku,

tapi bila dengar lagu ni rasa macam tersentuh sikit..

it gives me strength to keep on moving and aim higher!

*lagu kat atas bertajuk "Don't You Worry Child" by, Swedish House Mafia.