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Showing posts with label persoalan. Show all posts

Thursday, May 24, 2012

if this was a movie then there will be happy ending


we make mistakes...constantly
though we sometimes or most of the times we did not realize it,
but people does,
they know,
they see,
they observe,
all the wrong thing we did.
cliche!
people usually see the bad side of us,
putting aside the good things we did.
worst,
when we first know them,
they know that we are a good person,
but just because of one bad thing that we did,
all the good deeds,
all the compliments they gave us just fade away,
just like that!
how did that happened?

but by the way,
i just wanna say that whenever we did something wrong,
whenever we commit something sinful,
we regret,
we feel sorry,
we promised ourselves that we are not going to repeat the same mistake...
but,
why do we have to forget all those vows when we see the chance to do anything that is against the norm?!
we ignored our vow!
ignorance take control!
WHY?!

feel sorry!
have some compassion!
if it is not for us,
think about others.
family,
friends,
people that are close to us.
because,
when we commit something bad,
they will be affected,
directly or indirectly...
people talks,
people spreads the news,
the bad ones,
by hook or by crook people closer to us are going to know!
think about it.
what are they going to feel when they know,
and think about how are they going to deal with it,
what are they going to do when they found out the truth!
the shame,
the humiliation,
the loathing of people towards them...
all because of us...
cause of what we did!
the shit that we did!
we gave them trouble they did not deserve,
the kind of test they never imagined they will be facing.
but they have to face it,
because of us...

please...
don't be proud of the wrong things that we did,
don't even think that those things are "to keep memories"
sit in a room,
alone,
think back of all the things we did in the past,
how many good ones,
and how many bad ones,
does good ones surpasses the bad ones?
or does both of them are balance?
or even,
does the bad ones surpasses the good ones?
think and evaluate,
how are we going to repair all the bad things we did?
how are we going to repay people for what we did to them?
and how are we going to redeem ourselves?
ask these questions to yourself...
find the answers...
and the answers might surprise you...


it never is too late to migrate,
migrate in the terms of mind and soul,
change!
to be better!
to be more dependable than ever...
the time is not going to wait,
but we must chase after it,
no matter where it goes,
or when it ends...


Sunday, April 29, 2012

confession of a stepping stone


hi, my name is stone, stepping stone.
i'm not called the stepping stone because i'm an ordinary stone.
i'm called the stepping stone because i'm a very useful, convenient and a damn cool stone!
i am proud to be who i am.
i let people step on me and leave me just as soon,
i let people step on me and make them feel they are taller than ever,
i love seeing them like that.
and i'm proud to say that i am very inspiring!
i inspire people,
giving them what they really need to go further,
that is what they call "CONFIDENCE"
some call it "SELF-ESTEEM"
i'm glad i can give them that,
just by stepping on me and they can walk away with  full of confidence!
imagine how cool i am!
everybody want me!
i feel needed!
yeahhhhh!!!

but that's that,
they can walk away taking with them what they need and want from me,
but what about me?
they leave me behind!
as if i've done nothing for them.
saying no thank you!
all they say is "good bye"
i feel like i'm being used!
EVERYTIME!!!
imagine people step on you,
making you feel their pain,
and once they feel better,
they leave you just like that!
leaving you with the agony they put on you.
is it fair?
they get to walk away and achieve what they aimed for,
but what's gonna happen to me?
am i going to stay like this for the rest of my life?
am i going to be the so called "stepping stone" forever???!
let it be a question that nobody could answer,
not in a million years...




p/s i couldn't say that i'm a little down right now...



Friday, December 2, 2011

perihal membebel

what??? it's DECEMBER already?
how fast did the time flies,
means by the end of this month, we will be having a very new year!
WELCOME 2012!!!
actually i wanted to post something last night (12.00 a.m)
but i was so busy with something, in fact super busy!
plus i didn't  know what to right about...

so what about now?
do i have any idea?
my answer is...
NOOOOOOOO!!!
GOSH i'm bored!
really bored!!!
super bored!!!
i've got class at 6.30p.m today,
and now i'm just waiting and waiting and waiting...


ok, let's fine some issue to talk about...
|||||||||||||||SCANNING|||||||||||||||||||||
got it!
hari ni aku nak cakap pasal MEMBEBEL!!!
sape suka membebel angkat tangan!
aku tak suka membebel,
tapi aku suka dengar orang membebel...
tak tau kenapa...
tiap kali orang membebel,
aku rasa seronok...
seronok???
ok fine,
aku tak suka cakap macam ni sebab rasa nak muntah,
aku rasa "disayangi" (bluerrrkkk)
HAHAHAHA...

korang mesti pernah kena bebel kan?
tak kisah la sape yang membebel tu,
mak ke, ayah ke, kakak ke, abang ke...BF ke, GF ke...hehehe
masa korang kena bebel apa korang rasa?
best tak?
suka tak?
marah tak?
sedih tak?

tapi yang aku tau,
mendengar orang membebel membuat aku sentiasa senyum,
sweet kan aku?
masalahnya senyuman aku selalunya orang akan tafsirkan sebagai "tak ambik serius apa orang cakap"
betul ke aku tak serius???
honestly YES!!!
no offence la k...
like i said, aku suka dengar orang membebel,
so aku nikmati la moment2 yang ala2 "sweet" tu...
korang mesti ada moment2 pelik yang korang tak sepatutnya nikmati dgn senyuman, tapi korang senyum jugak kan???
everyone does...

bagi aku,
bebelan itu bagus,
bila orang bebel kat aku,
bukan aku tak dengar,
tapi aku tak ambik perhatian,
tak ambik perhatian tak bermaksud aku tak ambik input,
kadang2 benda yang kita tak dengar dan tak nak ingat tu yang melekat kat dalam otak...
aku dah experience sendiri...
ternyata betul...
banyak benda yang kita nak lupakan, but kita still ingat.

pelik kan aku?
EHEHEEE...
say whatever u want,
but i will never change myself,
there are things that i am flexible and i'm open to change it anytime,
but i've been considerable enough...
i need to have my own attitude...
after all,
at the end of the day,
it's always gonna be about me, me and me alone...
not fucking anyone else!
sekian terima kasih...


yesss!!! my first entry of the month! nasib baik la ada masa sket nak buat...kan3???



p/s aku masih fikir hal tadi...bengang tol la! hey U, kau ingat kau sape nak komen kerja aku?! blah laaa!!!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

kenapa peter pan nak jadi kanak2 untuk selama-lamanya? sekarang aku faham...


boleh tak aku nak jadi macam dulu?
jadi kanak-kanak riang,
dulu aku macam orang takde perasaan,
tak peduli pasal orang,
tak peduli apa orang nak cakap pasal aku...

aku rindu aku yang dulu,
sumpah!
kenapa la manusia membesar?
aku tak suka jadi matang...
aku nak jadi budak kecik,
boleh la manja2 dengan orang...
kalau dah besar semua benda nak fikir,
menyemak otak aku je!
menyampah!!! macam sial, haram!
sape setuju? angkat tangan macam saye...

p/s tu je aku nak cakap...lalalala

Sunday, October 16, 2011

facts about bloggers

hye all...

it's been a long time since i came around, it's been a long time but i'm back in time...alamak, lady gaga la plak...HAHA...
rindu I tak??? nak gedik sikit nih...hik3

main point aku hari ni nak isi masa lapang plus mengurangkan keboringan yang dah cecah tahap melampau kat sini...rs macam nak bunuh diri je weyhhh!!!

ok la, sape readers blog ni yang juga seorang blogger? angkat tangan macam saya...
korang tau tak fact about bloggers? aku pun tak tau, but as far as i know, there are a lot of things we could see when it comes to blogging as well as bloggers...after a little considerations, discussion and gives and takes with the highest council(myself), it came to the following results...cekidaut!!!

1) bloggers are people full of emotions...but they don't know how to express those feelings. WHY?
take a good look at any post by personal bloggers...how they use their words in their sentences...normally they will use what i call "ayat bunga2" in their blog...direct bukan, indirect pun bukan...bloggers ni suka pusing2, menyimpang sana-sini sampai readers tak tau diorang discuss pasal apa...so kalau perhatikan betul2, diorang memang nak sampaikan at least satu emosi kpd readers, but the thing is their words are so complicated!

2) bloggers are people full of lies...cakap tu, cakap ni, nasihat tu, nasihat ni but they themselves pun sama je. macam h***m...HAHAHA...why did i say that? coz I am a blogger myself! imagine u're reading someone's blog and blogger tu bagi nasihat kat korang about hoe to deal with certain problems...readers for sure akan baca dgn teliti. but when it comes to the bloggers themselves, what they give is not what they practice...but the thing is, whatever they say in their posts, ada kebenarannya...nasihat yang diorang bagi pun boleh pakai.

3) bloggers are a bunch of people who don't have self-esteem...in other word, they are "pendiam" in reality.
yup, believe it or not, it's true. bloggers yang mula2 buat blog akan post entry2 skema nak m****s! tapi bila dah lama, perhatikan apa yang jadi. they transformed into the most daring people ever in terms of their way of speaking! so what's the downside of blogging? very the BENEFICIAL beb! berbaloi jd blogger ni! HAHA

4) bloggers are story tellers...kalau masuk bertanding bercerita memang jadi champion! bab reka2 cerita ni bloggers memang pandai. betul tak? bayangkan korang tgh baca entry kat satu blog ni...bloggers ni plak story pasal satu kisah menyedihkan. TOUCHING gitu! masa baca tu korang boleh plak nangis siap ready satu kotak tisu depan PC...at the very beginning of the enrtry blogger tu mention yang kisah tu adalah the very true story of him/her, tiada kaitan dgn yang hidup atau yg telah mati. bila dah habis baca, korang percaya bulat2 cerita ala2 touching tu...all I can say is TAKDE MAKNANYA!!! all those stories are just rekaan semata-mata!

5) bloggers are damn cute, handsome, beautiful...but at the same time very shy2 cat...dalam blog bukan main kutuk orang sana-sini, kritik orang tu, ktitik orang ni, KECOH je lebih! tapi bloggers tak sebarkan fitnah k! but the point is, bila korang jumpa blogger ni in person, u'll begin to realize that what u imagine of them in their blog is not the same as they really are...but one thing for sure, bloggers are CUTE!!! setuju tak my fellow bloggers???HAHAHAHA

that's all i wanna say...perah otak berjam2 dah semata2 untuk entry ni.kalau korang ada idea nak tambah, komen la.kalau tak pun PM me...next is I nak buat assignment yang langsung tak disentuh...lalalala~babai u alls!!!



p/s ngantuk glerrr...zzzZZZ

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Human’s se7en greatest sins…


Have u ever watched one of the most well-known Japanese anime called “Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood?”. Kalau tak pernah, rajin2la jenguk kartun tu kat Animax k! astro channel 715 (Malaysia only). For a fantasy lover like me (ehem2), siri anime ni memang best…not only it portrays the strong love power between human being, but it also show us how human can really struggle just to get what they call a “peaceful world”. There are a lot of actions and emotions involved in the plots. Yes they were not real, fiction and very tak masuk akal, but there are some values that we can really get and practice in our real life…

Actually, my point is not about the anime or the values in the series. Did u see the title of my entry? What are human’s 7 greatest sins? For all that matters, the anime I told u above tells it all. Anime yang aku story kat atas for certain memaparkan 7 dosa2 besar manusia. Watak2 yang digunakan iaitu Lust(nafsu), Wrath(kemarahan), Pride(maruah), Greed(tamak), Envy(cemburu), Sloth(malas), Gluttony(gelojoh). Perasan tak dalam anime tu ada watak2 yang aku cakap tu? Kalau tak, kirim salam je la…HAHAHA…so, aku nak story la sikit tentang 7 dosa besar ni…we are humans. Humans are the most intelligent being that GOD has ever created. Tak ada makhluk bernyawa lain semulia manusia. Tapi dalam kesempurnaan ciptaan Tuhan, ada bayaran yang manusia perlu bayar. Dalam diri manusia sejak azalinya telah tertanam 7 sifat yang tersebut diatas. As we grow, those characters are just waiting for their turn to show up…now, I would like to explain a little bit about all those seven sins.

Lust (NAFSU)

Definitely the most common thing we heard and probably, most of us know the meaning of it. But if u don’t, here’s the scoop. “menggoda”, itu la yang aku dapat simpulkan apabila disebut perkataan nafsu. Ya, nafsu memang penuh dengan godaan. No wonder watak “Lust” dalam anime yang aku cakap tadi adalah seorang wanita berpakaian seksi. But, we have to remember that there are so many types of temptations that we have to face in our daily life. Generally, bila dengar nafsu, orang fikir pasal seks. Bukan tak betul, tapi it’s a bit narrow. Apa yang kita nak dalam hidup seharian, itulah yang dikatakan sbg nafsu. Makan, enjoy, kerja, study bla…bla…bla…

Wrath (MARAH)

Bila korang marah, apa korang buat? Well, for most people, bila marah mereka akan for sure bertindak kasar. Well, watak wrath dlm anime tu adalah seorang Raja. Raja yang sgt berkuasa, hebat, kuat dan ofkoz macho. Anyway, that’s the true form of that sin. Sifat marah dalam diri memang kadang2 terpendam, tapi bila sampai masa, ianya akan mengganas. It’s a violent character! Very hard to erase and took longer time than any other sins to fade away from ourselves. We get angry every time, no matter how big the thing that bothers us. *but its not macho though…*

Pride (MARUAH)

We all have pride. For all of us, pride is the most valuable thing that ever existed in our life. Pride requires us to be the best every time. Believe it or not, our pride do not let us to fill the second place in whatever we do in our life. Maruah membawa kpd “ego”. Manusia sememangnya dipenuhi keegoan. Sifat ego mmg tak mau kalah. That’s natural. Even dalam anime tu, watak pride mmg menyerupai namanya. Watak pride tu merupakan mutan or better known as homunculus pertama. Walaupun represented by a small brat, he is definitely the oldest of them all. On top of all, pride is a very arrogant, snobby, and proud sin.

Greed (TAMAK)

Humans were all born with this character. If we want something, we will do anything to get it. That’s just how it goes. Aku msh ingat kata2 cikgu aku dulu, “diberi penampar, nak penumbuk!”. Well, he was joking, but that is the one thing that still sticks in my mind. Manusia mmg tak pernah puas dgn apa yang mereka ada. Dah dapat yang ni, nak yang tu, dah dapat yang tu nak yang lain plak. In the anime, watak greed is a man who have the desire to conquer the world on his own, but finally he realized that the thing he really want is some loyal friends, not the power. I have to admit that it was a wonderful ending for him.

Envy (CEMBURU)

Of all the characters, this probably the most influencing for me. U know, this character revolves around us, but we don’t really realize it. Why? Because this is the feeling that humans really want to deny even if we know we all have it. Manusia sering menafikan yang mereka ada perasaan cemburu. Because it looks stupid when we are jealous about anything. Dalam anime tu pun watak envy ialah seekor rasaksa yang hodoh. And I still remember one of the dialogs “envy is an ugly character”. I assume that it is the reason why people don’t admit it when they are jealous or envy.

Sloth (MALAS)

Watak sloth dalam anime tu muncul agak lewat. Why? Because its sloth! Sloth is slow! HAHAHA…well, siapa tak pernah rasa malas? Semua org malas ok! Malas buat tu, malas buat ni…closest example? Doing assignment for student and going to work. But as far as I experienced, there is one simple solution for it, WE MUST PUSH OURSELVES! “paksa diri, bukan manjakan diri”. I think phrase tu explain tentang sifat malas manusia. Well, kita mesti paksa diri kalau nak dapat apa yang kita nak, even if we have to do it off our limits! Just make it simple, kalau nak Berjaya, kena la berusaha…kan3???!!!

Gluttony (GELOJOH)

Kalau dengar perkataan gelojoh, mesti kita ingat makanan. Kalau tengok watak gluttony dlm anime tu pun, dia adalah seorang lelaki yg gemuk dan kuat makan. But the difference is, he only eats thing that normal people don’t normally eat. Anyway, sifat gelojoh mmg ada dalam diri manusia. Apa yg pasti, gelojoh bukan sekadar makan, but it also involves so many other things. Gluttony berkait rapat dgn Lust. Tak hairan la dalam anime tu korang akan nampak Lust selalu dgn Gluttony.

Uolllsss, thought that u don’t have those characters in u? well, think again, and this time think really deeply and u will find the answer. As for all I know, no matter what we do or how we do it, we will never succeed getting rid of those characters. They are bound to be in us, for good!

Monday, June 6, 2011

mimpi ular=jodoh???


yuhuuuuu y'alls!!!

mimpi...yes, DREAMS! sedang aku konon2 buat blogwalking, aku ternampak la satu blog ni yang story pasal mimpi ular...kalau korang nak tau, baca sendiri. so, aku pun berminat la nak baca jugak. well, curious gak kan. HEHE...bkan nak percaya bulat2, tapi aku anggap tafsiran mimpi macam ni kalau tak betul pun at least akan buat kita terhibur. after all, tafsiran yang dibuat adalah berdasarkan perspektif islam. so tak salah kalau baca dgn khusyuk...HAHAHA...baca punya baca aku pun excited, so nak kongsi la sikit kat korang in case korang tak nak klik kat link yang aku bagi tadi...

ok la, truth be told aku memang pegi googled tafsiran mimpi spesifik utk ular...and, accidently aku terjumpa la blog mamat tadi tu sbb blog dia was the first thing to pop out when i search...actually aku nak sgt cari maksud mimpi ular coz aku pun sering mimpi ular...LALALA...so hasil carian lain yang aku dapat adalah seperti dibawah, cekidaut!

  • Jika anda seorang jejaka atau seorang gadis bermimpi melihat atau dipagut (digigit) ular, bermakna akan segera mendapatkan pasangan atau jodoh.
  • Dan bila anda telah menikah bermimpi demikian, bermakna akan memperoleh kemakmuran hidup.
  • Mimpi melihat ular kecil dengan tiba-tiba berubah menjadi naga, bermakna akan ada orang besar yang menolong anda.
  • Melihat ular berwarna-warni, bersirat kebahagiaan segera terbayang pada anda.
  • Mimpi melihat ular yang banyak sekali, bermakna akan panjang umur.
  • Mimpi dikelilingi banyak ular, bermakna firasat akan banyak orang yang memusuhi anda.
haaa... tu je yang aku dapat setelah berusaha mencari walaupun banyak dugaan dan cabaran yang perlu aku hadapi(line broadband slow)...pendek kata tafsiran mimpi yang berkaitan dgn ular ni kebanyakannya best!kan???!
tapi boleh caye ke tafsiran tu? well, aku bukan tak nak caye, but as far as i've experienced, ever since i started to dream about snakes, takde satu pun tafsiran di atas yang terjadi kat aku...why? walaupun benda2 tu nampak exciting kalau betul2 berlaku and i'm sure i'm gonna be happy if one of those things become reality...but i don't know. maybe its not time yet. so sabar je la...HaHa

ok la, kalau korang pun pernah mimpi ular mcm aku, tak kisah la ular tu gigit, kejar, besar, kecik eee semua la, aku nak bagitau yang jangan la nak percaya sgt...yes aku tau yang tafsiran tu dari sudut pandangan islam and i'm sure its gonna make u guys confident about the prophecy and everything, but come back to reality...remember that we are living our life, in real world, not in dream and fantasy world...

anyway, GOD is giving us the signs and its up to us to make the next move. if u know what i mean...TATA!

Friday, May 6, 2011

tips menjadi penipu berjaya...(dedicated to lies sellers)


entry ni adalah sambungan dari entry yang ni...yes, entry tu menghilightkan jenis2 penipuan yang sering kita dgr. walaupun tak banyak, tapi still sgt popular. ok la, entry yang ni bukan bertujuan nak listkan lebih banyak penipuan, but aku nak listkan mcm mana cara nak menipu, especially utk penulis. lebih tepat lagi, mcm mana cara berkesan nak jual penipuan korang...sila baca di bawah...:

1. do not put yourself in your stories...
why did i say this? sebab kalau korang letak diri sendiri dalam apa2 kisah or cerita yang korang nak tulis, idea akan limited. tau kenapa? pengalaman setiap individu adalah terhad, amat terhad. jadi, untuk menyelesaikan masalah ni, cuba berfikiran terbuka or open minded sikit. nak cerita lebih menarik, tambahkan watak yang korang reka sendiri ke dalam kisah yang korang tulis. gerenti org suka beb...

2. do not overreact...
apa maksud aku dgn overreact? ok, mcm ni...every stories ada plot, ada ups, ada downs, adaklimaks dan mcm2 lagi. moment2 tersebut memerlukan kadar emosi yang tertentu. ramai yang akan cakap, kalau nak buat cerita, jgn alang2, give it all you have...is it true??? actually kadang2 benda ni bergantung. ada org suka kadar emosi tahap tinggi dan ada orang tak suka cerita yang terlebih emosi. bayangkan kalau pencerita buat plot yang terlalu ikut perasaan, but pembaca tak dapat tangkap maksud disebalik cerita tu, bagus ke???pencerita akan dianggap sebagai S.S. (SYOK SENDIRI). well, back to basics of lying la kan, kalau nak menipu tu berpada-pada la sikit. kalau terlebih, takkan orang nak percaya...kan3???

3. jiwang sikit2 sudah...
tak payah nak jiwang banyak sangat la. nanti ada pembaca yang termuntah plak dgr. ehh, betul la...contoh kalau korang tengok drama or movie2 korea, apa part yang paling memboringkan? i bet korang mesti kata part romance2 kan? tapi mmg betul, org korea mcm takde perasaan especially lelaki. nak kata gay, dlm cerita suka dgn perempuan. tak tau la in realiti...ok2, patah balik...nak jiwang boleh, tapi control2 sikit la. orang suka jiwang2 yang ringan. especially kalau diorang kata "eee...sweetnye" or "wow, romantik la watak dlm cerita ni" dan sebagainya, tu menunjukkan pembaca nak lagi dan nak lagi membaca sampai habis...

4. put some humors...
story yang takde sense of humor memang memboringkan. yela, asyik2 dgn konflik tu, masalah ni...bla...bla...bla...eee, please la...skema dow! kalau mcm tu baik takyah jd penulis...lalala~ .humor ni bertujuan utk menyerikan keadaan, menambahkan plot dan sebagainya. tanpa humor, cerita tu akan sepi.setuju tak?

5. put some metaphors...
metafora, yes metafora. metafora bukan hiperbola. lagi satu, metafora takde kaitan dgn emosi. tak keterlaluan untk menambah sedikit keadaan yang bertokok tambah dlm cerita. right??? sambal tak pedas mana sedap...org menipu tak tokok tambah mmg tak sah...alang2 nak tokok tambah, buat la yang best2...tapi ingat, biar la bersesuaian...

6. give examples on current and hit issues...
yang ni utk artikel especially...contoh is very important in writing. examples proves your evidences. kalau takde contoh, org susah nak percaya ap korang tulis. yeah, walaupun tu sekadar penipuan, tapi kalau betul caranya org akan fikir2 balik dan kebarangkalian untuk diorang percaya adalah tinggi. bukan 100% apa yang kita tulis adalah bohong. kadang2 fakta2 yang kita hujahkan adalah benar. ok la, cuba tenok fenomena sekarang, fenomena industri hiburan Malaysia. dah heboh diorang cakap psl dua band yang ala2 K-POP(Korean Pop). benda2 mcm ni org mmg suka. so, kalau boleh, kaitkan artikel korang dgn contoh2 gempak yang berlaku in the real world...baru syok!!!

7. ayat jangan terlalu skema...
well, dalam menulis, ayat tak payah la nak skema sgt. org yang baca confirm akan rasa boring. ayat simple, santai, sempoi dan lain2 kan ke lagi menarik...after all, korang menulis bukan kena tapis dgn DBP. so, buat apa la nak fikirkan sgt psl tatabahasa, susunan ayat, perkataan tu semua? org cakap, "guna bahasa pasar sudah"...

8. criticism, sarcasm if needed...
part ni banyak orang suka. kalau dalam artikel, ada scene tgh marah2, ofkoz pembaca akan terpengaruh untuk marah jugak. so kalau letak elemen criticism or sarcasm dlm artikel, pembaca akan cakap "yeahhh....padan muka!" or "nah, ambik sebijik!"....bila diorang ckp mcm tu, maknanya diorang puas membaca artikel korang...arikel yang mengkritik, at the same time pembaca setuju dgn idea pengkritik tu...confirm laku!

ok la...aku boleh senaraikan 8 je...tak nak lebih2. org tanya, "kenapa tak cukupkan sampai 10", aku jawab "sebab angka 8 lebih menarik, tak sikit sangat, tapi tak banyak sgt. so buat apa nak letak angka 10 kalau angka 8 lebih menarik perhatian?"

ENJOY READING PEEPS!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

9+1 situasi yang menunjukkan korang stres


korang stres? taukah korang simptom2 stres?


haaa...kalau tak tau, aku boleh share sikit kat korang. actually banyak petanda or simptom2 yang menunjukkan yang korang stres. cuma korang tak sedar yg korang sebenarnya stres. wahhhh....mcm pro je aku kan???hahaha....takpe la, sj nak kongsi. kalau korang rs tak betul terpulang la ok!

1) migrain: ni simptom yang paling normal la. ramai orang akan sakit kepala bila stres. ntah la kenapa. banyak sgt fikir kot. otak pun penat.

2) mengantuk dalam kelas: ni bukan sebab tidur tak lena k. ni sebab tidur tak cukup. bukan tak nak tidur, tapi tak boleh. keja banyak...maklumla student..

3) jadi gila secara tiba2: ni bukan la gila betul2, tapi org tu akan tiba2 jd happy go lucky, tak ingat dunia. gelak sana, gelak sini. memang mcm org gila. maklumla nak lupakan masalah...tapi dalam keadaan ni jgnla nak buat benda2 tak berfaedah plak k!

4) marah tak tentu pasal: stres ni jgn main2. org yg stres ni panas baran tau. 1st sekali diorang akan cari mangsa nak lepaskan geram. tertekan sgt sampai rs mcm nak meletup...hahaha

5) moody secara tiba2: tadi gila, sekarang moody. tapi yang ni dah tahap kronik sikit la. kalau dah sampai tahap ni, baik korang pegi jumpa pakar. kalau tak, korang boleh jadi lebih teruk. if u know what i mean...ehem2...huhuhuuuu

6) buat2 tak tau: yang ni jadi ignorant la sikit. tau ada masalah tapi still buat bodo, selamba. nak kata sempoi tak jugak...ntahlaaa....

7) rasa nak jerit kuat2: yg ni jerit sorang2 k. kalau tadi jerit kat orang, so yg ni jerit kat benda2 yg tak hidup. orang ckp kalau jerit kuat2 boleh ringankan sikit beban kat otak. sebab tu ke org buat???hmmm

8) enjoy sampai tak ingat dunia: hahaha....yang ni bukan nak lari dari masalah ye. diorang ni perlukan masa untuk tenangkan diri sebelum sambung buat watever keja yang mengundang stres...nasib la kan???selalunya, diorang akan keluar makan2, shopping, karaoke bla...bla...bla...

9) nampak confuse: confuse ni bukan mengantuk. confuse ni membawa maksud blur. yela, kalau dah blur ni memang lambat la pickupnye...serba-serbi lambat. gerak lambat, cakap pun lambat...hahaha

10) tenangkan diri: yang ni paling best. yela, save the best last kan...hehehe...orang stres ni suka motivatekan diri sendiri. motivate mcm mana? diorang akan cakap sorang2. dialog palig popular, "its gonna be ok i can do it", " goodluck to me" dan mcm2 lagi...mesti korang penah buat kan???tak kisah la mcm mana ayat korang, yang penting ayat tu naikkan semangat korang walaupun tengah tension tahap gaban...

ok la, aku dah senaraikan 10 simptom yang menunjukkan korang stres. ada lagi tak yang aku tak senaraikan? banyak lagi kot. aku pun tak tau sebab aku buat pun bukannya rujuk buku mana2, segala-galanya adalah berdasarkan dari pengalaman dan pemerhatian...chewahhh.watch and learn konon!!! hmmm....dalam banyak2 simptom tu yang mana korang kerap alami? at least mesti ada 1 kan? so pandai2 la korang handle stres tu ok! chow!!!

Thursday, April 14, 2011

How to Deal With Homesickness During Study Away From Home


If you're planning to study far, you must prepare yourself for some feelings of homesickness. Regardless of how excited and prepared you are for your upcoming experience, you are bound to miss home. Feelings of loneliness and sadness are not uncommon for students who study away from home. What's the best way to deal with them?

Difficulty:
Moderate

Instructions

    • 1

      Be prepared for homesickness to strike. Take some things on your trip that remind you of home. Pictures of friends and family, some of your favorite music or a favorite magazine are useful when you need to feel close to home.

    • 2

      Build a network of friends and colleagues while studying abroad. Combat feelings of loneliness by spending time with others.

    • 3

      Stay busy. Immerse yourself in your studies. Participate in additional activities outside of class. Look into a part-time internship or job while you study. It's hard to be homesick when you're busy.

    • 4

      Talk with others about how you're feeling. Build friendships with other students who are studying abroad. Chances are, they're dealing with homesickness, too. Talk with a counselor about your homesickness if you need to. Check if your university or study program offers counseling services.

    • 5

      Call home and talk to your parents and friends. Or, stay in touch by e-mailing them on a regular basis. It's important to stay connected to the people you love any way you can.

    • 6

      Think positive. Make a list of all the rewarding and exciting experiences you have as you study far from home. Note how these experiences have helped you grow as a person. When you're feeling homesick, take out your list and read it.

      *artikel diatas ditujukan khas untuk mereka2 yang sedang jauh dari family especially yang tgh study. homesick is normal my dear friends. it depends on us how to deal with it...i myself pun tgh homesick, tapi buat la apa yang patut untuk kurangkan perasaan tu ok!

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Top 10 Tips to Manage Stress and Improve Your LIfestyle



By Annie Bower

Top 10 Tips to Manage Stress and Improve Your LIfestyle

Stress is the common by-product of modern day life. The world has become a global village and so people are adopting flexible work times to suit business needs, resulting in prolonged shifts and unattractive working hours. Pressure to perform and meet expectations pushes us to our limits. Work environment and relationship with colleagues also affects our experience at work.

These add to our stress level in addition to our personal life demands. But there are several ways to minimize and manage stress in our everyday life-

1. Sleep is vital. Sleep for at least 8 hours a day. Give your body the rest it needs to repair the wear and tear throughout the day. Sleep needs to be continuous not fragmented.

2. Eat well and rotate your menu for new items everyday. You should provide your body with all the nutrients it needs. You should eat on time and never starve yourself to complete pending tasks. If you need it you can take vitamin supplements which provide your immune system and body with the boost and energy it needs. Vitamin supplements are safe to use under Medical supervision.

3. Practice deep breathing exercises regularly. It increases the flow of natural tranquilizing hormones in our body and promotes a general feeling of wellness.

4. Learn to say "No". Even if you are asked by your higher management to do things which may stress you, like extending shifts or coming to work on your days off. Learn to say 'Sorry' and 'No'. Provide your body with the rest it needs, so that it can perform at its optimum in the long run.

5. Don't take work home. Your blackberry should not buzz for work emails or calls when at home. If needed turn it off.

6. Spend quality times with family and friends. They expect you to talk and laugh with them, and not get buried in your laptop.

7. Laugh where ever you can at work. Take pleasure in every little thing you do. Enjoy and share those forwarded mails and breaks with your colleagues.

8. Use your earned vacations or take a trip. You need a break at least once a year and you deserve it. Do not let monotony hamper your work-life experience.

9. Delegate work. You cannot do everything yourself. Use your trusted subordinates to manage some of your work. It will make them happy and feel important as well relieve you.

10. Stay Positive. We can never eliminate stress from our life. This is the natural reaction of body to any kind of work. But, we can certainly cope and stay positive if we are serious about dealing with the problem. Stress is a part of life, but the person who can manage it the best will be the winner.



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Monday, February 28, 2011

poem




hey...so i dont really rite poetry, im not really that great at xpressing my feelings but i figured id take a stab at it. i dont no if i wud necesarily call my self emo, i mean i guess i think like an emo and listen to emo bands and other emo steryotyped things. but i dont dress the part which ive noticed is a big thing for some people so id call me watever the fuck u want. so ill stop talking bull shit and juz write ...

staring at my arms ther are scars of moments past
the pale white scars from a mind harased
a boy who cuts insted of cries

what the fuck is the point!!!???
why do we live this life???!!!
ur hoping an afterlife? i hate to disappoint


what is reasons do i have to live each painful day
the only thing that comes to my mind is music
to listen and to play
but how will that suffice
no i need a specific

its happiness i need
but how to get it in this fucked up world
so i cut myself and watch it bleed
and my troubles all unfurll

i focus on the pain
it takes my grief away
for seconds my depression slain
but after that my life is again grey

i make a decision
im ready to do it
goodbye cruel world
and everything in it

my wrists
are split
the job is done
my death is pitied by none...

 
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